Control your visibility
Private mode helps you manage how your profile appears to other members and gives you more control over when and how you want to be seen.
About the appThe Discreet Plan:
The Discreet Plan:
who are we?
Since 2002, The Discreet Plan has offered an online dating space for people who want to meet someone new while keeping greater control over their privacy.
Profiles, messaging, video chat, and privacy features give everyone different ways to discover and get to know other members at their own pace. Our priority is to combine discretion and freedom of choice throughout the dating experience.
- Private mode and profile visibility controls
- Private messaging and live video chat
- Profiles with photos, videos, and personal details
- Privacy, moderation, and reporting tools
FreeDiscreetNo commitment
Your privacy, your choices
Meet new people while staying in control
The Discreet Plan brings together tools designed to help you discover, communicate, and get to know other members without having to reveal everything from the start.
Keep conversations private
Our online messenger lets you find your conversations again and continue talking with the people you would like to know better.
Get to know someone in different ways
Live video chat, photos, videos, and profile information give you several ways to learn more about someone before deciding whether to continue the connection.
Keep your personal number private
The private number feature can support phone conversations without requiring you to directly share your personal phone number with another member.
Our approach since 2002
Privacy designed around new connections
The Discreet Plan has evolved with the way people meet online while keeping the same principle: helping members discover new people without giving up control over their information and interactions.
Share only what feels right
Online dating does not mean revealing everything at once. You decide which information, photos, and profile details you want to make available.
This gives you more time to get to know someone before deciding how much you want to share.
Search according to your preferences
Search tools help you discover profiles using criteria such as location, age, and selected interests.
The goal is to make it easier to find people who better match what you are looking for.
Discover people near you
You can focus on profiles in your area whenever proximity is an important part of what you are looking for.
Explore dating in the USA to discover members near you.
Privacy and mutual respect
Discretion also depends on respecting each person’s choices. Every member remains free to continue, limit, or end a conversation at any time.
Privacy, moderation, and reporting tools help support a more comfortable experience throughout the community.
Your connections stay in your hands
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Explore the community, connect at your own pace, and decide for yourself what you want to share.